My problem with this quote, let's begin with the first bit "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing". Let's start by exactly why this is wrong, I am not a trophy. There is no competition. If I am an amazing person or not, if I am desirable or not is not up for grabs for someone to decide. I don't believe in playing hard to get, I try to be real, I don't know if I'm amazing or if I'm an average person, I don't care if I am. I will not be judged by someone else. and definitely not to be told that I'm "easy".
What's the definition for easy anyway? Is it somebody who'll compromise, is it somebody who'll be meek? is it somebody who'll say what they feel like they feel it? What's easy? somebody who is sexually active? Whose to say what's easy? What's amazing? Is someone who is strong, independent, fierce amazing? is someone whose entire universe revolves around her husband and child amazing? is somebody who lives on her own terms amazing? Really what does easy and amazing mean? Does somebody who believes they can be horrible in a relationship amazing? (Cuz, hey! Not easy).
I think when people share posts like these, I want to get to understand why they shared it. Because most times, I feel like they want to sit on a high chair and say "I'm not easy". No, nobody is easy. You are not going to "get" people for being nice to them. Its a myth. If you're going to sit and judge people and put them in categories of easy and hard to get, you are going to live a very sad life.
Here's the second bit and this is not me over analyzing, but exactly what is someone worth? Who decided the worth of a person? How did anyone decide I am worth their time? I'm sorry, but since when did "easy" people become not worth someone's time?When did accepting all people with all their flaws and treating them with respect stop being a thing?
This quote is exactly the kind of thing I'm against. Encouraging women to play hard to get, don't say yes. Play busy. Don't be vulnerable. Why in the world would you be so scheming? This exactly the kind of thing you want your men to not do, judge a woman by her readiness to talk, decide if she's easy. Put on a shiny crown and decide if a woman is worth it. If you give up, you're not worthy, hello stalker!
And the last bit, oh god. Everybody is going to hurt you (Gospel truth). But what, easy women are not worth the suffering, but supposedly amazing women are worth suffering over? Are you kidding me? Bob, screw you buddy. I don't really care for the quote.